Happiness Is all we have to achieve!

Ever since I have become of age I have always wonder what would happen the day I die? Will I be happy with all that I achieved in this world? As I thought harder and harder of these questions one thing that I came up upon was that I have always been scared to really be who I am and do to that sometimes I don't accomplish many of the things that I would like to accomplish. I have made a bucket list of my top 10 things that I would like to let my fear go for once and be able to accomplish these before I die.

1. Be the BEST mother I can be for my Son!

2.. Say sorry to anyone that I have may hurt either physically or verbally.  

 

3.Let go FOREVER of any grudges

4. BE ME all the time without caring what others will say.

 

5. Go Skydiving.

 

6. Go zip lining in the highest place possible.

 

7. Climb Mountain Everest   

8. Take a trip to Hawaii for the first time.

 

9. Travel the world.

10. Buy myself a brand new car.

 

My top numbers on my bucket list are things that I would like to get done for myself to be in piece with who I am. My most important thing as you saw Is to be and continue being the best mother I can be for my Son, teach him the values of life and the hardships. I want him to grow up to be a hardworking young man. I also want to be able to say sorry to anyone that maybe I hurt thru out my life, it could be either physically or mentally. Just for once in my life I would like to be able to be myself without being afraid of what other people might think of me or just to be judged by others. Then from there the next things on my bucket list would be things that I would enjoy to experience before I pass away,. These are things that I have seen others do but I have just never had the courage to do it myself. I think its about time to just think about myself and make myself happy for once.

Is the true equation to happines work?

Does work equal happiness?
In my point of view not to the majority of people but to others what may make them  happy to others its not. In my personal opinion you need to be able to divide time into something you enjoy doing  and work. You need to be able to find a balance between both important things. When you think about work what comes to your mind? To my mind only hard work, a salary, long hours, and sometimes no fun comes to my mind. In order to have a balance you need fun time when I think about fun time I think about being relax, letting go of problems, being happy and most of all being you. Being a workaholic isn't the best for anyone but also not working isn't eithers. From personal experience I can say my Dad is a workaholic and that has affected my relationship with him. I am not as close as I wish I could be with him because I feel like we don't relate at all. He spends most of his time working so I rarely even see him. So think about it are you willing to let your fun time behind just to make money?

The true language of Advertisement!!

 

Advertisement has molded us into becoming the people that they want us to be instead of letting us be our selves. Its like if they wanted us to be the same and not have any differences, that would make us unique. When you see an advertisement on television you right away start picking out your flaws and asking yourself in this case if your a girl why don't I have that perfect body or hair that the model has in the commercial. Its all about hitting your insecurities to influence you to want to buy the product that they might be selling. They use a language that the advertisers know will wrap you in their threads and make you a consumer.  At the end of the day its a brain washing mechanism that has been used just for that to change the way we think about one another but overall our real values. Its all about brands and how expensive the things you are that make you valuable now and worth something. All that they say are lies just to manipulate us.

 

 



Paradise

 

peaceful, colorful, paradise.

 

A bowl of ice cream, always satisfying.

 

A colorful compression of its own.

 

Paradise.

 

Like a peacock showing off its colors.

 

Spreading and making everyone happy.

 

True paradise of its own.

 

 

 

 



5 Looks about The Giver

 

memories

release

individualism

community

utopia

 

 Without MEMORIES, there is no pain. If you cannot remember physical pain, you might not of have experienced it. In The Giver the community decided to eliminate all pain from their lives. To do so, they had to give up the memories of their society’s experiences. Not only did this allow them to forget all of the pain that had been suffered throughout human history, it also prevented members of the society from wanting to engage in activities and relationships that could result in conflict and suffering.

 

When a Community member was RELEASE was because they had broken the law three times, when the requested a release, when they had become very old, if they didn't reach the proper birth weight,or if they were the smaller of a set of twins. This was the biggest mystery in the community, not knowing were members went after the release, why the ceremony was so secretive.

 

At the Ceremony of Twelve, the community celebrates the differences between the twelve-year-old children for the first time in their lives something that the children grew up thinking was breaking the rules. For many children, twelve is an age when they are struggling to carve out a distinct identity for themselves, differentiating themselves from their parents and peers. the journey to their INDIVIDUALISM begins.

 

In the COMMUNITY everyone is treated equally, never pointing out their differences. Everyone has an appointed duty and everything is done as said. Its all communism.

 

Is the community really an UTOPIA for everyone, or might it only be for some people. A place where you have to give up something's in order to have the prefect place, but is it for all?

 



Crafting Online Identity

Who really are we? Is it too hard for us just to tell the world, or the social networking world who we truly are without having to put up a performance for them and make them believe we are someone who we truly aren't. It would be much easier just to post a picture without having to put all these filters or edit it for people to give us a "like". Social networking has changed our personal perspective about ourselves, now we try to be better than super women, when really we are an original women. Think about it don't let social networking determine who you are.

When we are in front of a computer we put on a mask that we have created of our ideal self ,once we are out of site we become our real self. A real us that God forbid anyone in Facebook see.  

My life, an art piece

in progress.

My life isn't perfect that's why I describe it as an art piece in progress. I still have to make many changes to it until I think its perfect enough and to my liking. My piece of art will be in progress for some time.